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Reflecting back through the years I realize how each member of my family has molded and shaped me into becoming the person that I am today. Each member of my family gave a little piece of him or herself to shape my character and develop me into this woman. Whether it was through a word of encouragement, an example of sacrifice, or just loving me they have all given a token of themselves and I am thankful for that. Parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins are so important to us all. And as we grow through the years and create families of our own we sometimes stray away and may not see one another as often or speak on the phone as frequently. Sometimes disagreements arise and we don't always see eye to eye with family members. But that love does not lessen in any form.
I was reading a blog over the weekend and the blogger shared a story about her and another family member disagreeing and how that affects the family with the holidays approaching. I could thoroughly relate to her story because I have been experiencing a similar event of my own. However, I began to think about how upset I get over the issue when I think about it for too long. And I know the only reason that I can possibly become that upset, is because I do care, they do matter, the love still remains. And while we cannot always influence how others perceive us or how they represent us to other people in their lives, we can continue to stand strong, be the best that we can be and love our family through it all. And I learned that lesson from another family member also (my hubby).
Our first steps, laughter, words, first day of school, first date, graduation, learning to drive, all these experiences have been shared by some member of our families. The good times and the painful times we all come together to share that love and embrace one another. Through the loss of a loved one we promise that we will stay in touch and then go back to our own separate lives. But that love still remains shining brightly on the inside. While yesterday holds the memories of the past, and tomorrow is not promised, we must continue today to hold that love dear in our hearts and be thankful for those God has chosen to bless us with...those we have no choice of being related to...those who love us when we're wrong and support us through the difficult times...our dear wonderful families.
JUST A PIECE OF THIS WRITER...
C. MICHELLE RAMSEY
C. MICHELLE RAMSEY
4 comments:
I love this post, and I'm sure many can relate to it! My father's side of the family isn't even coming together for the holidays because of issues between various family members. I know we all have different opinions, and I wish we could put it aside, so that we can enjoy each other's company for one day. Life is so short, and I hope we can get together soon.
I pray that your family will overcome their obstacles to be together and the healing can begin. I know that I had to make a similar decision, but after a recent health scare for my husband I realize some things are just too petty & not worth the headache. We have one life...we need to live it & love while we can. Thanks for your comment Sherelle.
Family, sometimes they can driv you nuts but st the end of the day they are a gift to our life :)
I just featured you in my FRONT Hop this week at CuteCoconut. Come check it out and join again :)
Rina thanks so much! I am super excited to be featured on CuteCoconut, that is an honor. I have joined my link up again and look forward to meeting with others. Thank you once again.
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